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sorin-sunchild:

Here’s the thing…I understand how difficult it is if you’re not a man to look at men and those who want to be men and think ???? That??? That’s what you want??? You’re allowed to have felt ugly when you were forced to be masc. You’re allowed to look at men and not find them in any way appealing even aesthetically.

But you’ve got to understand that it’s also ok if others have the same feelings you do, but about femininity.

Neither masculinity, femininity or androgyny is inherently beautiful, empowering or freeing. They become those things when a person gets to choose how to express themselves through them. And there are no wrong choices.

So if people are enthusiastic about being masc even in ways you and maybe most of society find ugly, just move on without saying anything negative and vice versa.

play-now-my-lord:

play-now-my-lord:

play-now-my-lord:

It’s interesting how people will take “lesbians can be attracted to men” as a personal attack

You sound like a millennial version of those mumsnet bitches who have never had any sex more interesting than missionary with an accountant named Derek yet are completely sure no queer cis woman of sound mind would ever want to fuck a trans woman

The advice I have gotten from older dykes mostly adds up to “do what your heart wants, fuck what the world says, make the meaning you can of the love you have”. Meanwhile Tumblr people who were sexually obsessed with One Direction a single president ago are pretty sure you can’t qualify as a lesbian without filing papers correctly with the government and being audited by an independent observer

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